So I took both boys to the ped's office for C's appointment. That's always a fun ride. I ended up keeping S quiet by feeding him halloween candy from my purse. The backpack of toys and things to keep him busy didn't work. At least I found something, and they don't eat candy all day, every day, right???
Well, back to the topic at hand... the pediatrician asked a bunch of questions regarding C's behavior and his moods. Then she gave us two forms, one for the parents and one for the teacher to fill out. The results should quantify whether or not he needs further evaluation to determine if he has ADHD (inattentive, hyperactive, or both), Oppositional Defiant Disorder, Conduct Disorder, or Anxiety / Depression. We'll return the forms to the pediatrician, they'll make an appointment with us to review the results, and make referrals from there.
Because I'm a google nut, I looked at a form online, and determined that it's highly likely that he'll be referred for further evaluation on ADHD (combined inattentive and hyperactive), Oppositional Defiant Disorder, and Anxiety/Depression. I'm anticipating a referral to a psychologist and some more testing and counselling.
I'm still antsy about meds. I have ordered a bunch of books off of amazon that I hope to get in the next week or so. Books about diet and nutrition control of ADHD, visual-spatial learners, and right brainers. I hope there's some nuggets in there to help us out so we can avoid medication. Though I don't want to be so bullheaded as to not give him something he needs. There has to be balance. I guess it comes down to not being willing to give chemicals to my son to make anyone's life EASY, but I'll give them to him to make HIS life BETTER: to make the learning process beneficial, to improve his relationship skills long term, to increase his self confidence. If I can do this without meds, I'll be ecstatic. If I can't, I'll medicate him. I just want to try "natural" methods first.
Anyway, this is where we are at with the diagnosis process. I'm still feeling ... "iffy" about it all. I'm anxious to have a more solid direction. I've never been comfortable with the enigmatic.